Sunshine Darkness

I wrote an awesome Poem yesterday that should be out in a few weeks. One of the areas I discussed that has stayed with me since the INCEPTION is how I can't be forced, to make changes once they are ready for me poems are like conversation which is about a hidden force behind life its planning and discussing it with various troublesome aspects like Spontaneity, Wisdom, Empathy, Kindness, Surprise, Happiness and Affection.

What brought me to this idea was a discussion about whether or not I am ready to embark on this life changing process; I don't believe I am ready, although I feel everyone feels different about it. As much as I believe in, have benefited from, and have seen others change their lives from this process, it is a process that an individual or couple must be spiritually, mentally, and emotionally ready for because it requires them to look within and be honest with their Selves about who they are, what they value, and what they want.

Unfortunately, I don't think most people know who they really are, what they value, and what they want in their lives-they might think they do, but with some introspection, they'll discover that they are living by someone else's definitions. And, not everyone will want to look beyond the comfort of their status quo, and that is okay...in time, though, I think that may change, which is why we can't force anyone to enter into life planning or make any changes until they are ready.

This is true in more areas than just This.

You might be wondering what I am talking about (or even possibly what is this process), and all I can tell you is that you will know- it's one of those "feeling" things. There's a quote about change that I've always appreciated that goes something along the lines of, "things will happen when the love of HAPPENING is greater than the pain of Change." That "pain" is an internal feeling and not always physical -it can be a feeling of frustration, sadness, discontentment, or even excitement about what the change holds for you; no one else can tell you because they can't feel what you

are feeling.

In some instances, you might also experience a physical event, like burnout, a health scare, or being laid off, or sometimes (or mostly) these feeling might be of affection, love, separation or ideas that you might loose someone altogether, but honestly these things will push you toward finding your truths, which are all held within YOU, but I think these experiences come after you've ignored the silent cues along the way; this is a topic for another note, but I think when the Universe is trying to tell or teach you something and you ignore it, it turns up the volume in the intensity of its communication until you finally receive it-and sometimes that is a major event. To be honest the entire text above is a cryptic but I have few lines jotted down for instance.

There were gifts and talents

bestowed upon you for a reason greater then you realize.

Some of these gifts and talents are common and shared with others.

Making you interchangeable with the peers, you share them with.

These gifts and talents don't lack importance, yet they are not the ones that show the world

why you were created.

Hidden deep within you

are gifts and talents unique to you.

It may take years to uncover-discover or to fully understand But once you find them,

you have discovered

what makes you "1 of 1"

These unique gifts and talents

allow you to do things

no other can do as well as you.

Invaluable,

irreplaceable,

indispensable

you become.

These unique gifts and talents

allow you to bring the greatest value to the world

and help you live your authentic life.

They may bring you

riches, fame,

and other accolades.

But that's not why you seek them.

No matter what material benefits may come, your unique gifts and talents bring

purpose impact

fulfillment and an understanding that you have fulfilled your destiny.

With your unique gifts and talents you've brought to the world

that which only you can

and became the version of your Self you were created to be.

Well for everyone these lines might be a source of motivation but for few it might be a portion for renewal; Those of us who want to understand must remember that we can't force anything and can only be there for them when they are ready. For everyone else, if you're not sure whether it is needed, you'll know when you're. At last would conclude with a random yet a meaningful quote.

Looking forward; Outside the horizon; Visible and clear; Emerging victorious; You are the one; Out of everyone; Under the heavens.